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writes:My friend of 1 and 1/2 years recently allowed his daughter to put pictures of just him and his deceased wife all around an entire room of his house. The daughter (47 years old, lives with father with her husband, neither have jobs) has done everything she could in the past to break us up. I told him I feel it is disrespectful to my feeling and our relationship, since he was supposed to be moving on, and he should not have allowed her to do this. She has told me that she wanted me to stay away from HER HOUSE. I told him that he did not have control of his home. Should I stay with this man. Reply to this Question
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reader, Smilone +, writes (9 November 2008):
Smilone is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Classy, Britt and the one who doesn't know. Clasy your answer was the best, although, I feel he is afraid to talk to his daughter, and, by - the - way, it was not her real mother, but step-mother. She says she has no problem with me, she is like this with everyone.
Life is short, and I want to enjoy what life I have left. I would love to enjoy with him, but I do not want to have to go through changes. He should handle his affairs. These people live in his house and it is his problem. I can not tell him how to handle his household.
Trust me, if I have a man with a 47 year old daughter, I am not a spring chicken. LOL.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): I don't know how long ago he lost his wife, but obviously the daughter isn't happy about his relationship with you. If you have to ask the question "should I stay with him?" It doesn't seem that important to you to "fight" for your man. I don't mean that literally, confrontation usually backfires in a situation like this. By "fight for Him" I mean, be as loving and caring as possible...show the daughter you love her father and are good for him. Make him happy. Don't allow the daughter to know the pictures bother you...even though they do. Her goal is to discourage you...If you truly are in love with him...don't let her come between you.
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 HOW OLD ARE YOU?! not that have anything against old people relationships, but not knowing your age doesn't help...
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