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writes:I am going on 50 10 years ago I meet a wonderful man who was in a relationship with a married woman. I was not in a relationship at the time. I pursued him we got along great we talked and talked we took one step at a time and got closer and started a relationship he ended it with his other women. Anyways he moved in with me and left me 3 weeks later too much responsibility for him cuz I had two kids. He left I cried he came back and moved back then he left again, and again, finally I found someone else and moved on my ex bought me a engagement ring said he only loved me and wanted me back again. He took off again. Not long after he married the one women he was in the relationship with before me. We have always stayed friends, talked and emailed and just recently he wanted me to go to vegas with him so I did. However, I have been in a long relationship with a man since the breakup 10 years ago. Not a great relationship but one with security and not for money just to have someone around and to help with stuff around the house. Now the ex wants me back I'm not ready for this I don't trust him and he makes me feel bad and sad for himself. A big part of me says screw you I never wanted a relationship with him if I can't trust him what if he goes back to his ex again? Help me what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): I think you already know what to do - tell him to get lost. Leopards don't change their spots. Listen to that 'big part of you'. You can't trust him and you know it. He's spreading himself rather thinly all over the place. He sounds a total commitment-phobe!
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