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writes:Well here is the problem.I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for nearly 2 months. Just today I came back from a 4 day trip that I went on with him and his family. Without any forewarning to the unusual behaviour it seems like the day the trip started he pulled away from me. He is normally a solitary creature but he will always be rather nice to me and make sure I am happy. But it seemed like he was more concerned about the holiday time than me. I had to start prompting him to say 'I love you' and unless I initiated it he wouldn't touch me and even if I did start it he would go no further than just kissing or hugging.By the night of the second day I broke down and confronted him to get an answer about his behaviour. He simply say he didn't know. He was saying to me he doesn't know why he is becoming distant. My main concern is that even though the trip is now over he is still not back to the way he was treating me. I would just like to know what does it mean when he says he doesn't know why he's being distant? He has told me he will tell me what the problem is when he works it out. But why does he need to work it out? Why doesn't he even have a basic idea of what is wrong? One comfused little puppy Emerald
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reader, Miss_Emerald_Angel +, writes (5 November 2008):
Miss_Emerald_Angel is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for that. Funnily enough I pretty much told him last night I'd give him 2 weeks to think about it all. And I naturally hope for the best & expect the worst. But thanks so much for the advice.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 November 2008):
Tell him you need something to go on because he can't just leave you torturing yourself.I think you should hope for the best but expect the worst.Stop chasing him. Tell him you are going to give him some space to make his mind up.If he has a chance to miss you then he might realise what he's risking losing.Good Luck!! xx
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