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age
30-35,
*xhoplesslyhisxx
writes:There's this guy i met at a concert in july. But when we first met it was kinda like love at first sight. It was like i known him all my life. Well we began talking more and more, and one day my parents read all my text messages of me and him joking around, and now they don't like him. So i told them that we don't talk anymore. But we have been. He always tells me he loves me and that im everything to him. I love him so much i would do anything for him. But i have trust issues and always think that one day he will hurt me. Even though he reassures me all the time that he wont. He is so sweet but we hardly get to see eachother and we both want to date eachother. I asked him to ask my dad, but the thing is - how do i know he's telling me the truth? I cant afford anymore heartbreak at the moment, and i know that if he hurt me it will absolutly destroy me. Also how can i learn to trust him? please help!!!
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reader, Everoth +, writes (5 November 2008):
 Everyone is going to hurt you at some point in your life, all you get to choose is who you are going to let hurt you. If you like him, then at least try, its better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all to be honest and by trying to be with him you are taking a risk, sure, but you stand to gain something as well. ALL relationships have that potential for hurt, but the pain won't kill you and in time you'll move on, so go on and if you really feel the way you say you do, go ahead and try to work something out with him.
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