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writes:I was in a relationship with this guy for 5 years off and on. I decided to end it because I was not happy at the time. We still continued to call each other and spend time with each other as well. A few months ago I found out that he is talking to another girl but they are not in a relationship. I want to get back with him but Im confused. How can he talk to this other girl for about 6 months and NOT be in a relationship with her? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): You need to look into why you weren't happy with him before. It's very hard to stay friends with an ex because it is neither one thing nor the other. You need to question him about whether he is in a relationship with her, or wanting to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Of course he's lying...you can't be associating with someone for a certain amount of time..and then just break things off with them...that's how relationships work..and if they weren't in a relationship...then they were probably dating...some feelings were defenitely involved...and if they were just friends..then he would still be friends with the girl and you wouldn't have to worry about her so much...also it wouldn't be that they were just talking for six months they would still be friends...it sounds like he was trying to move on...just talk to him about it..but I doubt he would tell you the truth..since they were so called just friends.
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