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*ichelle C.
writes:I have insecurities and I wish they would go away they hinder my happiness and my life! I have a wonderful husband who is just great to me he is a little younger about 13 years younger and never have I had someone treat me so good and yet my insecurties are driving him and myself crazy!! My husband is my best friend, we do just about every thing together unless we are at work or he is at school, he is a student nurse and in college! not to mention he is extra good looking!! We meet when he was working at a mutual place and became friends and then much more and eventually married. The more he is in school the worse I seem to get! I don't want to lose him and am at my wits end with what to do! He had some girls emailing him and calling him to do this project in school not at first did I understand the extent of this school project afterwards it turned out to be nothing, still I have this fear not that he will cheat, but that he will form a relationship and fall for a younger much more beautiful person at school! This is just the big and small of it too much detail to go into right now but would sure appreciate some feed back ! Please I'm at my wits end to save my marriage.
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reader, Michelle C. +, writes (5 November 2008):
Michelle C. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you! Im gona try, some times I feel like Ive swallowed a bumble ball, and feel like taken off and just running til my legs give out,with a sick nausa feeling in my stomach. I really just wish it would go away, I suggested go to a therapist and He didnt feel that I needed that?
Next summester he may have to have four hours of clinicals at the hospital in the evening! this has got me so sick!
I do have a history of betrayal with my first relationship, did not think it reflected now.
There is more to this, cant say that Im to proud to say when we was first together when we was first just dateing I was not faithful to him and he still married me and wanting a life together, I feel that I know how easie it was for it to happen, I worrie he will fall for some one else with more to offer him!! My mom always says what gos around comes around. I guess every one chokes on there own medicine!! I beleive that talking with others that feel the same can understand me better!!
thanks
Michelle C.
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