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I only date males because I'm afraid of what people might say!

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Question - (4 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am bisexual, but no one knows it yet. I hear people all the time saying that being bisexual is nasty, and I am afraid to say it.

I like females and males but only date males because I'm afraid of what people might say, even tho I really want to date a female.. What should I do??

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 November 2008):

You sound like you live in a small town with small town minds.

I'm not going to lie and say love conquers all. Even if you found a girl worth risking "coming out" for then people would still be horrible to you.

All you can do is challenge people on their views. Ask them why it's nasty? Is it a religious thing? Because the Bible says you shouldn't pick up sticks on a Sunday. It's a bit out dated.

If you meet a girl then you'll just have to keep your relationship a bit secret.

Either that or move to a more liberal place.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, princesscharming09 United States +, writes (4 November 2008):

princesscharming09 agony auntJust wait till you find a girl worth dating, someone you feel comfortable being with and that will back up up when you decide to admit it. Being bisexual is not "nasty", you can't help who you fall for, so don't go looking for someone just let it happen. Boy or girl just be you and let life work it's magic :)

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