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writes:This is a bit long, but here goes, A guy at my work arranged to go out with me but he blew me out at the last minute, I have never asked why, I just pretended that it never happened because I thought it was easy, my mother thinks I should have had more respect for myself. Anyway, the guy in question, who I really like, talks to me every day and I like him a lot and I have the feeling that something might happen, my mother has said that I should have more respect for myself and I shouldn't give him the time of day. What advice would you give? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny +, writes (4 November 2008):
 I think that generally yo have to be careful where dating people you work with in concerned. The thing is when things are sweet then all well and good. But when/if things turn sour things can then become very arkward when you have to see them every day, not only arkward for you, but also other colleagues pick up on certain vibes as well.
As for why he blew you out at the last minute is anybody's guess, maybe he had a genuine reason, maybe a problem arose, although he should really have explained the reason why. I don't think that you shoud go chasing him, just let things blow over and see what happens, just be polite and friendly torwards him and take it from there.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): I dont hink you should if he really liked you he would have aswked out by now, guys are real simple if they like you they do everything to get your attention and do anything to be with you. So if he has not asked you out by now he is not worth the time, so i say move on to someone esle. I hope this helps
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