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writes:hey guys just wondering something and was wanted some help coming to a conclusion... ive been with my guy for about a year now and we always talk about what we want in the future and where we want to be in 5years time... we both want similar things in life and its really nice but the question is... is he with me because im a homely kinda girl and i will be good wifey material or does he genuiwenly love me... he always tells me how he loves the fact that im so traditional and have very grounded morals.. im just wondering is he just settling or does he really wnna be with me even if we wanted differnt things?? any ideas Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 November 2008):
Well if he wanted to settle down and you wanted to pursue a pole dancing career in Vagas then he may compromise for a few years or he may say that no he couldn't wait and look for someone else.
The fact that you want the same things is just icing on the cake of your relationship. It means that not only does he love you but he thinks you are perfect wifey material.
Would you be making long term plans with a guy who you loved but was a drug addict and wanted to try and make it with his band even though they were rubbish? No. It'd be hard but you'd go and find someone who you loved and was good husband material.
Just accept that it is fate that you've met a guy and you are perfect for eachother.
Good Luck!! xx
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