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writes:my boyfriend is coming round tomorrow, and seeing as this is the only day we have my house to ourselves, we were planning to sleep together. this would have been my first time, but I was happy with this, and we've had it planned ever since i knew that we would have some privacy away from my family!But the problem is i got my period yesterday. my friend told me you get tighter during your period, and it seems kind of gross to have sex while i have it. Is it weird to have sex on your period for the first time? should i wait? it is hard to imagine when we will have another oppurtunity like this.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 November 2008):
To be honest I would wait till next time to have sex.
Periods are not nice and smelly and the average boy is not used to dealing with blood like we girls are so it may put him off.
It's hardly the romantic first time you want.
It's just not your time to do this. Everything happens for a reason.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): i think that you should wait until your married to have sex, and i'm not just saying this as a christian, but also from experience, i have seen what pre-matial sex does to teenagers and it's not good. in most cases the guy usually leaves after having sex with their girlfriend and they move on to someone esle or they get pregnant and he still leaves you or even worse you get end up with AIDS. guys like you more when you respect yourself, by abstinaing from sex until your married. you shouldn't be concerned with sex right now think about your future and what you want to do. when the right guy comes along he will respect your wishes of waiting , and when you are both married when you have sex with them for the 1st time , then you will realised that it was worth the wait. as you will not only connect on a physicall level but also on a deep spritual level that u never knew that existed, so I really hope that you will wait, and that if you and your boyfriend are meant to be then he will understand your decision to wait.
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (4 November 2008):
 Best thing to do is discuss it with your bf. If you and he don't mind then by all means do so. I'd recommend the shower though to avoid the mess.
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