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writes:Please help me please Iam in a difficult sitaution i let my babydad move in with me after he just broke up with his other babymom.They been brokenup for two 6 months they have two kids together and i have one bye him to.I know him first i met this man 11 years ago .The point iam getting at is I cant stand his other babymom she will not let go and it makes me very angry.She calls my house she emails and and write all kinds of mean things about me,I try to leave it alone because I think she is mad because he is with me now.But sometimes he goes over there and spend nights to spend time with his other kids and he say baby iam not doing anything with her i love you.Please help me I really love this man .I wish the other babymom just go away.I really dont know what to do
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (4 November 2008):
 The other 'babymom' isn't going anywhere for the next 16 yrs atleast. And quite right too. But he shouldn't be stopping over there, even if its miles away. He should be stopping in an hotel. Stopping with her isn't appropriate.
He needs to buy a pair of balls and put a stop to her ringing him at all hours apart from about the kids, and ive got 2 and didn't and dont need to contact my 2's dad at all. He only sees them every other weekend.
C xxxxx
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reader, Miss Potter +, writes (4 November 2008):
 Does his ex and children live far away? If they are not then I cannot justify him spending the night there! And if this is the case then probably he is sleeping with her and Emilysanswers is right, he is playing you both.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 November 2008):
I bet she's thinking exactly the same thing.Can't you see that this man is playing you both off against each other?He's going round her and telling her all the same things he is telling you. He's lying to you both.She won't ever go away. She has had 2 children by him and he keeps telling her that he wants to be with her but can't because of you.I really think you would be better off with a man who treats you as his one and only.Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Reebe +, writes (4 November 2008):
 You have to face facts that she is not going to go away, he has kids with her and you all need to find a solution to get along for the sake of the kids.You need to ask him to speak to her, and ask her to stop sending nasty emails etc.The grown up thing here would be to accept that he is with you and not her, and ignore the emails.Are you 100% sure that nothing is going on with them now? Why would he need to stay the night, unless they live far away.
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