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anonymous
writes: the girl i like has a bf. and i dont think he is right for her. we have almost everything in commen, but she still wont break up with him. is there anything i can do to change her mind about him for me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): hmmm
well ill just give it time shell relaise eventually if hes not right for her. try spending more time with her but dont do anything to jepidize her realtionship. become good friends and see where it goes from there
if its meant to be its meant to be
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): I too have been in a similiar situation but I think that u shouldn't try to change her mind about him.Just be a really good friend to her. She might need sometime to realize that he is not that good for her if he is really that bad. You must also realize that you can't change force her to change her mind and as her friend you have to accept that she is with sometime esle, and that if he hurts her in any way you should always be there to protect her, just don't force her to like you , you have to let her choose, if u come off as pushy or needy she wont like you at all. Let her see how good you are to her, but if she can't see that then I think you might have to move on. I hope this helps
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