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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hopefully somebody has an original answer!!I've been with my boyfriend for about 19 months now. We moved in together 2 months ago, and since that time our sex life has decreased pretty drastically. I find myself wanting sex fairly regularly, but whenever I express this to him, he shows little or no interest and tells me he's "not in the mood", "not feeling it", etc. Please don't say he's cheating on me because I know this is not the case. I've tried waltzing around in lingerie, sleeping naked, biting/kissing certain sensitive parts of him, I've randomly walked up and started playing with him, I've shut myself in my room and played with MYSELF in hopes that he would wish he was in there with me, and NOTHING has worked.PLEASE send me some suggestions! I'd really appreciate it! :)
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reader, Gem86  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 Hmmm.. have you tried talking to him about it? Like sitting down and telling him how youre feeling (without any accusations etc) and say youre worried what it means for your relationship. Youre going to have to make sure you do it in a way where he knows youre not criticising him, you just want to sort it out.
There is obviously an underlying reason why hes not in the mood any more. Men can be funny about talking about their feelings, so if he shuts you out try to be understanding (because like most men, i suspect he will shut you out!). I think eventually he will open up. Just dont pressurise.
Hope you work it out :)
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