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writes:So my absolute best friend is gay...is it possible that a gay guy can turn straight? I mean he has told me he is in love with me and that he would be able to have sex with me if he had to. I can get him excited, if you get what I mean. Most people think we're dating and when they think we should. He even gets jealous when I date. He has even physically removed a guys hands off my body because he was touching me and he didn't like it. We can't picture ouselves with anyone eles and he already said were gonna end up alone and together. He has even referred to what we have a young love, it slipped out the other day...and when he is drink he is awlays trying to kiss me and get in my pants. I don't know I don't want to wait around for him, but I wouldn't want to give up something that could be great...any suggestions? could he be straightish? should I wait move on? I know I'm in love but is he?
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (5 November 2008):
 Your gay frind has a problem with confusion because he likes you and feels that he has to have sex with you to cement your relationship. Stop teasing the poor guy and let him go. He is gay...and there is no way you can change that. I have known guys like him that have this confusion thing. I even had sex with a guy who thought he was BI....worst sex I ever had!!! Yuch!!!
When it comes down to it Bi guys are confused gay guys and that all there is to it. Try to lead him back to his gay life and try to make this a more platonic relationship....either that or break it off, hun. He is gay...get that and move on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): He could have sex with you if he HAD to?!?!? This is very wishful thinking on your part.
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (4 November 2008):
 Could a girl turn you gay? It's very unlikely. You say "he could have sex with me if he HAD to" doesn't sound like he wants to or would get anything out of it.Have you ever known him to be with another woman? It sounds like he loves you and cares for you as a friend, but he doesn't want anyone else to have you. I don't think realistically you could have a long term relationship, you would always worry you weren't enough and he would never be completely satisfied, you could also end up ruining the friendship you have now.Maybe he's afraid that he won't find anyone and he doesn't want to be with out his back up friend?I think you should move on and if he doesn't like it then you will have to explain that you have to that you can't be there to hold his hand.I've been though a similar thing and we ended up ruining our friendship and now we don't talk at all.Good Luck!
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