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female
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30-35,
*---beckie
writes:Right, I met this guy in May. We kinda dated till the end of June then we drifted apart. While we were dating he asked me out 3 times and I said no. The reason I gave to him was that we should wait til we know each other a little better, but the real reason was because I felt sorry for my friend (but thats a totally other story). I've been trying to get him back ever since. Especially these past two weeks. I had my hopes up as high as the sky! We had started talkin on MSN again and he talked about meeting. We said we would meet two weekends ago but we never did, the same happened last weekend so I rang him and he said he would come on the Sunday. When Sunday came and he said the front tire on his bike was broken and he would come Monday instead. I thought it was just an excuse so I said "look, if you dont wanna meet just say id rather know than look like a d*ck". He said he did wanna meet and if he didnt he would just say and would fix his tyre as soon as he got home from college on Monday.On Monday I rang him to make sure he was still coming, he said yeh he was going back to his house and when he had fixed it he would ring me to come over. He never rang me. He never came over. So I'm taking it hes not interested? He didnt even talk to me today when I signed online :(I really cant get over him and I cant concentrate on anything :( HelppI keep telling myself someone else will come along and the pain will go soon but I really don't want anyone else I just want him and I want to go back to the way it was! I've even told him this and its like he doesnt give a sh*t.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Hello hun,
Have u thought about just leaving it for a while? Hes either gone off you, he liked it when u were playing hard to get, or he has some other personal stuff happening in his life.
So all of these reasons tend to say you should back off. If the worst is true and hes not interested any more you just have to deal with it. Its rubbish I know, Im experiencing something similar right now.
I hope it works out ok, good luck.
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