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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey guys i need some help... rite this weekend i organised a romantic weekend away for me and my boyfriend ... i decorated the room with candles and petals and i know he really apprieciated the gesture... when we did get back to the hotel for this awaited suprise he said lets uno enjoy spending time together first.. he said coz otherwise it will be like other times we will just do it and then be both tired n just cuddle and go sleep... so anyway we just lieing on the couch and talkin and he said to me that he cares about me soo much and that he cant do anything that i wouldnt appreiciate... hes like im always thinking what would she say... all that was beautiful and then comes the issue...he said to me that the other day he got a text from this girl that he knows saying she has a free house and wants him to come over... he then told me that he said NO to her. he told me that he just couldnt do anything coz he cares about me so much yet more so he doesnt want to do anythings as he has it al with me... i didnt say annything but it kinda made me think alooott its just weird coz he wasnt that on it with me either so again it made me think more...the worst thing is that he has had a history of cheating... i knw this purly coz i was the other women whilst he was still with his ex (i was unaware of this btw)... i knw i shud trust him and to a certain extent i do as we both have gone thru alot to be together its just i feel like hes gnna do it again... any advice pleaseee
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008): This is the problem of being the other woman.we are human beings after all.The question "Is he going to cheat me the way he did with his ex" is never going to leave your mind.If trust is not there then there is no love.If love is not there there is no point in being in a relationship.
When trust is not there and suspicion sets in the relationship becomes pure hell for both the people involved.You have two choices:you either learn to trust him unconditionally.If you can't its not fair on him if you want to stay on in the relationship.All the Best.
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