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writes:I have sensed for some time my wife and my best friend have been attracted to each other I think I got confirmation of that last saturday afternoon. Well last sat. morning one of my friends called said he needed help moving a hot tub Isaid sure I'll be there in about an hour. I told my wife I was going to go do that seeing as she was just going to work out anyway.I have to say my wife is a very well preportioned and toned 120 lbs.Looks killer in a sports bra and spandex shorts.Well just when I was heading out the door my best friend showed up just to have a few beers and shoot the breeze I'm sure also to flirt with my wife.I said I have to help Gary move his hot tub I said the wife is here make yourself at home I'll be back in about an hour.We got done sooner than exspected so I went home.I walked in the ground level garage entrance by the kitchen and heard no voices that was weird so I made my way quietly through the house still no noise. Then I made it to the balcony and could'nt beleive what I saw.There was my best friend fully clothed sitting on the edge of the couch with my wife standing between his legs with her white sports bra pulled up over her boobs and my favorite her white spandex shorts and hot pink thong underneath.Her hands were running through his hair as he had his face buried in her tits and his hands all over her perfect ass.I just quietly walked out of the house as if I saw nothing.Later on that night I confronted her about the situation and she told me he bumped the top of his head and she was just making sure he wasn't bleeding.I left it at that I wasn't in the mood to argue.I really love her so what should I do? I need some advice. thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): Yes, most people would wonder why you left them alone together. I understand a bit here that even though you suspected their attraction, you wanted to give them both the benefit of the doubt and put your trust in them. After all, she is your wife, and he your best friend.Obviously, they didn't respect you enough to leave it to just attraction. Your wife's excuse was a lame one. You need to talk to both your wife and your BF separately. Tell them that you know about their mutual attraction and that what you saw wasn't about a bump on his head. Give them an ultimatum (sorry, I know some people hate these) - either knock it the hell off, or lose you as part of their lives.You could try to continue on as if nothing happened and do your best to keep them separate from now on, but that's a stupid waste of your time and energy, and you shouldn't put yourself in that position. If you don't say or do something now, then they will take the next step at some point down the road. Nip it in the bud.
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reader, samsproperty +, writes (6 November 2008):
I think this is the strongest case of denial I've ever read. These two people are no friends of yours. Time to upgrade your pool of associations my friend. Divorce is not all that bad...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): Hi, you must be mad to walk away without saying anything, you are setting yourself up for heartache, you have seen this with your own eyes and have all the evidence you need,read some of the other stories on this site about denial and affairs, I think you will see whats staring you in the face, read the story of James45 Oct28th, "My world of devastation caused by an affair" and it my waken you up to what lies in front of you if you do not sort this out NOW.. All the best June
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reader, vix100  +, writes (4 November 2008):
 I'm amazed you didn't confront them there and then - I suppose it was the shock of it - but I'd have got ballistic! Poor you! She didn't do a very good job of telling a plausible story - you're not stupid, you know what you saw, and she knows that you know. Tricky situation - you could just wait and watch, hire a PI, or if you're impulsive like me, confront her and say you've had your suspicions for a while and not to treat you like a fool. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): Perhaps it was a cold day and she was preventing his ears from getting frostbite?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): What advice are you hoping for? The facts are there, written in letters 10 feet high. I can only say what I would do under the circumstances - kick her out, divorce her, move on, start again. She's obviously a very sexy looking woman and is capitalising on the fact that guys find her sexually attractive. She obviously craves that kind of attention - she'll never change. Dump her, my friend.
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