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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm so confused! I've been going out with my boyfriend for going on 4 months now and we've said we love each other but thing is i think i only love him as a friend! we were good friends before we got together but i don't want to hurt him. i don't know if i really want to break up with him cos i'm happy with him, he's really great and i know he really cares about me. Yeah so what i'm really confused about is that i've gotten closer to my other good friend who i've liked since i met him a year ago. i didn't say anything to him because i didn't want to ruin the friendship (and also because he had a girlfriend at the time and i got together with my boyfriend while they were still together) but now it's worse cos i'm in a relationship and i feel so guilty cos i think i like him even more than before. there was always the suspicion that he liked me back by my other friends but i didn't believe them until last week i finally confessed to him i had a boyfriend and he went quiet then said out the blue he missed his ex girlfriend. i don't know if i should read into that but it did seem weird. Yeah I don't know if this makes much sense but i did my best! I just don't know where to go from here! thanks to anyone who can help! x
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reader, Charleybabes0811 +, writes (4 November 2008):
If you like someone else, you have to decide who you're in love with, or who you would be better with.
Lists of Pro's and Cons do work believe it or not, they help to make hard choices, and realise how you really feel.
If the other boy wants his ex back, give him space, you're not exactly old, you could do with alone time too.
You're in the same sort of situation that a friend of mine is in. It's not working, but she doesnt want to lose him. You need to decide, and a.s.a.p really, cause its not fair on any of you.
Hope it turns out okay. Lemme know...,
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