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writes:I am thirty years old and married with two young children.I have, however, been having very strong feelings for a young lady that works for me. She is eighteen, and very beautiful. Most of all, I believe she has feelings for me as well. I find myself going out of my way just to see her and would like nothing more than to have this beautiful young woman in my arms.i know how very wrong and taboo this is but i feel like i may be falling for this girl. Reply to this Question
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reader, heartbreakingmom  +, writes (10 December 2008):
My husband had a affair with a coworker who turned into a starker let's just say its been a long road the grass always looks greener on the other side but never is just imagain saying to your young children one day that you slept with a 18 year old cowoker when you where 30. Because you couldn't resist holding her and think of their inocent eyes looking at you and having to say to them you didn't want to work on your relionship with their mother how are you going to feel then I'm sorry if this seems mean but be for its to late please think of the other people in your life and how it would effect them if it ever came out talk to your wife see might be feeling the same way commincate I can't stress that enough think of when you got together with your wife before kids would you have looked at this girl ? No proberly not ! Comunication is not working for some reason you need to connect as a couple again go away together no kids try to connect try to comunicated before its to late you can't take back hurt after you cheat I hope I help you and its not to late best of luck its never to late
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (10 December 2008):
 Someone that works for you is a very high risk place to go looking for an affair. You probably have a lot of eyes on you at work and people notice far more than you would think.
18 is also a dangerous age for an affair
I am not in a position to have moral objections to what you might do or not do but I don't see this ending well. Be careful.
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