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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay well here it goes on Nov 15th i started my period and ended on Nov 18th and had sex with my boyfriend on Nov 19th and the condom busted and he came inside me and at first i feel hungry all the time but right now sometimes i would feel sick idk what to do and i dont want to take a test because I don't want my parents to know this because they will tell me I am going to be like my mom, a 19 year old parent. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): They can't have a go at you because you did use protection! You could have got a morning after pill but it's too late now, what's done is done, and the problem can still be dealt with so don't panic.
If it was the day after your period then it is unlikely that you are pregnant.
Now your next period should be due quite soon, although do bear in mind that all the stress could make it come on late. I suggest you wait until just before xmas, and if you haven't come on by say the 23rd, then get a pregnancy test. If it comes up positive then you have three options:
Abortion (if you were gonna do this then I would do it soon because the way they abort older foetuses is disgusting)
Adoption (bear in mind that it might be years until you get access to the child)
Keep the baby (if you are in a stable home with a steady income this wouldn't be the end of the world. And I know you're 19 but it's not like you're 16 so don't panic.)
And for future reference - always use more than one method of contraception at a time as condoms can sometimes fail!
Come back and let us know how you get on =]
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