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His "finishing pattern" is weird when we have sex.

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Question - (10 December 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hii! :] My bf and I have been having sex lately for the past 3 weeks... he's 19 and I'm 17. Usually about 5 times a week we use protection and everything but his pattern for finishing is weird.... our first time he lasted about 10 minutes and now he can last for like.... 30 minutes and sometimes he can't finish through sex so I have to give him a blowjob but some days he'll last like 5 minutes and I'm really confused is this normal? Whenever he lasts super long... I orgasm at lesat 2 or 3 times and he pulls out and takes off the condom and cums A LOT but through head only a little will come out. I kinda enjoy it since there's always excitement of how long hes gonna last but I'm just wondering if this is normal? Thank youuu!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008):

Nothing unusual here. When it comes to stamina, the time varies for all guys. A number of factors can influence how long he lasts. Same with the amount of ejaculate. Relax and enjoy yourself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008):

5 minutes?! 30 minutes?! Gawd I'm glad I'm a lesbian... no offence intended! He sounds pretty normal to me! xx

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (10 December 2008):

Danielepew agony auntThe amount of semen that comes out varies from time to time. If you really enjoyed it, then you will ejaculate more... in principle. If you ejaculated recently, then you won't ejaculate as much the next time, no matter how good it is. If you don't ejaculate for a few days, then you will ejaculate more, even if the stimulation is not that good.

I don't see any problems regarding him. I suspect that you feel you're not good enough for him when you perform fellatio. That's not the case.

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A male reader, agtorange United States +, writes (10 December 2008):

agtorange agony auntYeah I'd say it's normal.

I find certain things make a difference, if I'm having sex a bunch of times throughout the day I usually last the longest the fist time. If he's been drinking or not that can affect how long he takes to finish too.

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