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writes:So i'm dating this guy who likes to get really serious really fast and then he gets tired of having the chick around. I made the mistake of letting him do this with me and now I am afraid he's getting tired of me being around. How do I keep him from getting sick of me and breaking up with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, SeaShell  +, writes (11 December 2008):
I understand what you mean.
At the end of the day it's upto you how much time you would like to spend being with him but I'd talk to him and ask what his view on it is.
If you've been dating him a long time and you see each other everyday, sometimes it's best to have alittle rest from seeing each other in the day and to have a bit of time to yourselves.
Just like me and my partner, i see him everyday, all day and I love it but we both know when to call it a day just so we can both rest as we sometimes get ratty and can argue. Soon as I get home he's already straight on his Xbox and has his male time lol.
Try not to worry that your smothering him coz your not, have a good old talk to each other and get off your mind.
Let me know how it goes for you, all the best x
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reader, angelfire1123 +, writes (10 December 2008):
angelfire1123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe problem is i'm one of those people who like to spend alot of time with the person they like and I to move fast but I tend to stick around afterwards. So maybe I'm just worried I'm smothering him.
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reader, SeaShell +, writes (10 December 2008):
hello there,
This guy your with - it is NOT up to him to decide how much time it is suitable for you to hang around with him. That's just mean. It seems as he's in control.
It's not fair that you have to worry about keeping HIM happy, not yourself, and worrying everyday about when you think he's gonna break up with you.
If your in a relationship with someone who really loves you then he should enjoy your company and love every moment being together.
Stand up for yourself, get him to listen to you and make him realise how you feel. If he doesn't get the message through his thick skull then I think YOU shouls break up with him.
Good luck to you and I hope I have helped in some way :)x
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