A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi I'm 19 and I am in love with my boyfriend. As often as we have sex I never ever had an orgasm! All of my friends tell me stories about theirs but I have none, what should I do? I'm willing to try anything. And just the other day he told me that's all he wants for xmas.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (10 December 2008):
so no pressure then?
ok. heres some questions for you.
Do you masturbate? if not, then why not? if you don't know what you like then how is anyone else ment to know?
if you do, are you able to get yourself off?
sadly alot of women don't have orgasms through vaginal sex.
just remember if you can get yourself off on your own, it doesn't mean theres anyhting wrong with you. might just mean your bf is a bit crap in the sack.
if you dont masturbate, get to it. find out what turns you on, and just go nuts. its perfectly natural. if you don't explore yourself and find out what you like how can you go jump into bed and have sex and expect it to instantly work?
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