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female
age
36-40,
*ibby
writes:my boyfriend and i quarrel over sex. we are both virgins and he wants to sex but i am not ready for sex. i called off the relationship yesterday cos i felt we both need a break to know if its infatuation. i really love him and already missing him. did i do wrong by breaking up??
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reader, ostego160  +, writes (10 December 2008):
I think the better question is how long have you been going out and how old are the both of you. Remember, once you have given up your virginity you can never get it back. At the same time, I'm a guy and I can imagine how much it sucks to not be able to make that leap, but sometimes even guys have to know when to back off and respect their women.
Also, if you are taking a break, it isn't exactly breaking up. Breaking up implies you are never going to have anything to do with him again. Maybe a break is all you need.
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