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*exi suga
writes:hey guys... need some advice about the ex... i recently got together with a guy who got together with me after a long open relationship... after i got with i found out the reason we were in an open relationship... he was still with his ex... after and ultimatum put down by me.. he choose me...however 6 months into the offical relationship he still keeps in touch with his ex... ive talked to him about it alooooot... but he keeps insisting that he cant hurt her and still cares about her welfare ect... they were together for 4years and he claims that she had done alot for him... the worst thing is she still constantly fones and texts him like crazyyy... he hasnt told her that hes got someone new as he doesnt wnna hurt her as its still not been "long enough"its getting to a real horrible state now were im beginning to get paranoid at the fact that he still chats to his ex... the good thing is however he doesnt lie to me when i ask him if hes spoken to his ex or not... however he doesnt directly tell me and i dont constantly want to keep asking coz thats not my character.... please help me... how should i handle this situation???
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reader, sexi suga +, writes (14 December 2008):
sexi suga is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhye guys thanks for that... he decided to tell his ex hes got someone new thank god but it still feels very weird... she text him the next day sayin im not goin to connect u and i have to move on but stupidly after the txt he called he the next day askiing if she was ok... i dont understand wwhyyyyy he did that after everything im soo confused and it looks like he just cant face up 2 anything please help what is he playing at
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): He says he doesn't want to hurt the ex, but isn't he hurting you, the one he supposedly now loves, by constantly being in touch with her? And he hasn't even told her about you, after 6 months? Her welfare is apparently more important to him than you are, so you have to decide if you're willing to be second best. You could try another ultimatum but my guess is he'll not give in this time. Then you have to decide if you want to stay or go.
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