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Stuck in the middle! What do I do?

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Question - (10 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *ovelybrumbi writes:

Ok this is sort of a dumb question.

my friends and cousin have put me in this situation where i have to choose whose side i am on. my friends expect me to be on there side cause they say my cousin is spreading rumors about them and it is killing me cause my cousin is telling me that she isnt doing anything (she isnt the best person to believe) they are saying that my cousin is spreading rumors that they are trying to go out with her boyfriend cause all of them he has cheated on her with and they put me right in the middle of it i feel like my friends and cousin just dont love me anymore they r putting me in so many situations and i cant get out what should i do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008):

well...talk to them...say that you cant chose between them.

if you want talk to them separately...like say to ur friends 'she's my cousin (family) and maparents etc. would go mad if we stopped being friends and slagging each other off.

say to ur cousin that there family friends and that your parents etc would get annoyed with u if u stopped being there friends.

and just ignore the rumours and gd luk!

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