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anonymous
writes: Hi. I have a question. okay so. me and my boyfriend have not had sex at all, the furthest we've gone is I'm naked and he's on top of me with jeans and boxers on, and we kind of act like we have sex, just humping until i have an orgasm. well he told me he hasn't cum at all, but what I'm wondering is if he were to pre cum and not realize it, could it soak all the way through his pants and boxers and get me pregnant? I'm still a virgin. i haven't felt anything besides my fluids, but i'm paranoid that he might pre cum without realizing it and i don't want to take that risk. i'm starting on the pill this month, but i'm not on it now, so i guess that's why i'm paranoid. but i would like to know how plausible it is for him to soak through two layers of clothes with just pre cum. thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): i just wanna say something to the "anonymous" poster.
1.she clearly said they WERNT haveing sex, so that clears out that one. dry humping and and having sex aint even the same thing, unless both partners were to be naked or something. its just humping..
2. a STD is a SEXual transmitted disease, and there is no posably was to get one unless you have sex.
so sorry SUGAR but yours wrong..
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): hi. it's me. thanks for the help. and yes i know this is dry humping. i was just asking for an answer is all because i wasn't clear on it. and i've researched and never heard of getting an std through clothes, with 2 people who aren't infected, but thankyou for the heads up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): Sugar, if you have to ask this question, you shouldn't be doing anything at all. You certainly shouldn't be having sex. Go to a parent, older sister, trusted teacher...someone who can tell you about sex. What you are doing is called "dry humping." Although you are not likely to get pregnant, you can catch a multitude of STDs in this manner. There can still be fluid exchange and you are putting yourself at risk for a lot worse than pregnancy. Hold on to your virginity as long as you can. Once you lose it, you can never get it back. Sex only complicates relationships. i waited until I was 18, and I really wish I had waited longer. Be happy being young and innocent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): Virtually impossible, I'd say. A bit like sucking a sweet with the wrapper on - you IMAGINE the flavour but you never really get to taste.
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