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I can't count on my best friend! She's too flaky!

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Question - (10 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2008)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *onderlove19 writes:

I have a friend problem, and I'm really getting sick of being messed around. My best friend, or so I thought, and I have known each other for about five years. We were so close in high school, until about two years later she just stopped being my friend. Like she was bored of me or something. It broke my heart. We were like sisters and I had shared things with her I never would've shared if I knew how flaky she is with friendships. We went through so much together, and I can honestly say I loved her like a sister. Anyway, things pretty much ended for a while, two years passed, and about three months ago we started being friends again. I found out a whole load of things, like she had slept with my ex boyfriend, and she told me she felt really guilty about it. I'm hurt about that, but even more hurt now. Because we were getting on really well again, and I was so happy, then the last time I even got through to her was about three weeks ago, and I've called and left her messages, but no response.

Im really sick of being messed around my her. But I care about her and she's been my very best friend ever. I cant even begin to explain how devastated I am feeling right now. I didnt think I could get a broken heart from a friend. She's playing me like a broken record and I dont really know what to do anymore. Please help. I'm at my wits end with this.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008):

of course u can have a broken heart..

best friends are just as important as boyfriends

she changed, she is NOT a good friend anymore..they dont sleep with your ex boyfriends or even see them without ur permission

and her messing about and not answering ur calls? SHE DOES NOT deserve ur friendship one more minute huni! Xo

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