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I don't know whether to walk away from him, and should I meet him next week.

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Question - (10 December 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, *eebee writes:

I'd been single for many years. Got chatting to a guy and we just clicked. Same sense of humour and had such a laugh. Ended up going to see him, then it was about four months before we saw each other again. Distance is an issue. we text and chat every day, and he tells me he likes me a lot and that he misses me.

We have an opportunity to meet again next week for a day or two. I have made comments before about arranging to meet but he had no holiday and he wanted us to have quality time for us to see how we got on.

I have totally fallen for this guy but I am not sure whether to walk away. I have given him the opportunity to walk away before but he has said he doesn't wan to. He was ending a relationship when we first started talking and said he wasn't looking for anything but that was six months ago.

I've told him I won't wait forever and he said he couldn't expect me to.

I don't know whether to walk away from him, and should I meet him next week.

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A female reader, beebee United Kingdom +, writes (13 December 2008):

beebee is verified as being by the original poster of the question

we are still meeting and he has suggested we talk face to face.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008):

dont walk away from something that could change your life forever, remember..always say this to yourself... YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE. GOODLUCK WITH YOUR ADVENTURE!

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A female reader, beebee United Kingdom +, writes (10 December 2008):

beebee is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you for your reply.

i may have made a mistake, i have emailed him and told him i think we should move on. and that things arent going anywhere....!!!!!! because i know if we meet next week i am going to want him even more than i do now.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008):

Meet him next week then you can see how things go. Have a think in the meantime how long you want to give him to decide whether he wants something.

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