A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm in a big big dilemma....(sorry if it's long)Basically, Since leaving school some years back, I've become very friendly with one of my ex-teachers. We remained friends after I left school, and even as a student, we got on very well. My problem is that during my time as her student, I had feelings for her. Those feelings have only become stronger since. Yes, we are both females, but that's not even my main problem. My problem is that I want her so badly, but I'm so afraid of killing the friendship between us. I wonder all the time if she feels something for me also... I can't tell by her, and sometimes she will drop what I think are subtle hints - but are they?? I need advice on how I should approach this very confusing situation... I'm madly in love with this woman, and I can't help but fantasise what we could be - given the chance... But it takes two, and thats where it becomes unsure. Should I cahnce being honest with her and just comeout with my feelings, or do I play along as I have been doing for so long now??Please please help me out... xxx
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, starfairy +, writes (23 April 2008):
 I would take a chance, yes you stand to lose a friendship if she doesn't feel the same way, but would you rather spend forever being eaten up by not knowing?
Go fot it!! :-D
A
reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): What you need to do is go to her for advice about what you should do about another female friend to whom you're attracted and wondering if you should start a lesbian relationship with her. If this older woman thinks romantically toward you at all, it ought to become fairly obvious. She may even come right out and tell you. If she is a lesbian, she's probably dying to do things to you but is afraid because she was your teacher. Best wishes!! Love, ~heidi
...............................
|
