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writes:hi, im having a problem trying to work out if a boy wants a relationship with me or not. i have known him for about a year and a half now and meet him about once a month. He asked me out once but i rejected him and he has never asked since. now i really like him and dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Hey, was in the exact same position as you a month ago, when he asked me i was that surprised that i rejected him, even though i loved him, then when i asked him, he rejected me - not so good. Still think about him but try to put him at the back of my head for prides sake.My advice to you is give him a month, make eye contact, smile, conversation and wait to see if he asks you out. If he doesn't then, don't bother. There's plenty more fish in the sea!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): Hey, was in the exact same position as you a month ago, when he asked me i was that surprised that i rejected him, even though i loved him, then when i asked him, he rejected me - not so good. Still think about him but try to put him at the back of my head for prides sake.
My advice to you is give him a month, make eye contact, smile, conversation and wait to see if he asks you out. If he doesn't then, don't bother. There's plenty more fish in the sea!
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reader, stilllovinghim  +, writes (27 July 2009):
I have the same problem, he wanted to kiss me but he took for surprise so I rejected him even though I liked him. Now he doesn't seem interested in me and it sucks.. but are you two still friends?? if you are then theres a chance for you to show him you want another oportunity! Don't give up!
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reader, stilllovinghim +, writes (27 July 2009):
I have the same problem, he wanted to kiss me but he took for surprise so I rejected him even though I liked him. Now he doesn't seem interested in me and it sucks.. but are you two still friends?? if you are then theres a chance for you to show him you want another oportunity! Don't give up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice im going to tell him how much i think of him now then before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): What you need to do is ....NOW YOU must ask him out and explain why you couldn't go out with him the first time!
No man wants "rejection", so he will never ask you out again
If you want to go out with him...then you must make the first move!
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reader, DearSteve +, writes (22 April 2008):
 This is an easy one if you take your own personal pride out of the equation. You know that he likes you – or did like you – because he’s already asked you out once. I’d say your first step is to establish that he does indeed still like you. His own pride might get in the way a bit here; it’s not nice to be rejected, so be honest. Tell him that you like him and that you’ve had time to think and that perhaps it’ll be good to give it a shot. If he agrees, well, the rest is easy. If he doesn’t, then you’ve got to accept it, regardless. The one key thing to remember is honestly; the more upfront you are, the more likely you are to get an upfront and honest answer back.
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