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36-40,
*addysgirl
writes:I have been in a extremely serious relationship since I was 16 with my boyfriend. i am now 21 and he has NEVER hit me, verbally abused me, degraded mme, or anything but, he is neglectful. Not in a huge way but he just dosen't pay attention to me and in a slight way he is selfish! Since we've been together ever thing has been about him!!! and it still is! I moved to a completely different state to be with him. Although him being the center of everything would frequently became annoying I would stand by him through it all. sometimes times i feel like being with him has changed me! I used to be so outgoing, fun, laugh a whole lot more, and the center of attention but, now I am the complete opposite i feel like nothing and controlled in a twisted way. His is very critiical about EVERYTHING and i think that has something to do with. he is a GREAT person really he always make sure I am well taken care of but, and cares when I'm sad, helping me get into school, tries to make me happy,but, he just does pay attention to me! this has always been a problem and now I have been going through a state of depression!!!!!!! we have now stopped having sex until we get married and I am a horny mess and he ok! When we were having sex we weren't even doing it regularly!!!! I would be like 2 a month 4 at the most. I would parade naked and that would help either. he would say sexy things but never acted on them! I'm scard about getting married because i don't want to marry in to this situation and become stuck! I don't know what to do,I want to break up but I feel like that I don't have a good enough reason too. help me!!!!!!!! I beg of you!!! I'm I just being spolied or is there a real problem here?
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reader, SMOKENMIRRORS  +, writes (18 February 2011):
If I may ask. How old is your boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): Perhaps your feeling a loss of identity, because you've been with him so long and you were quite young. Now your starting to mature and you want that old puppy love feeling back. You may be feeling depressed due to lack of support. Ever heard of co-dependency? You may really benefit from learning about it, it may fit it may not but at least allow your self to make an informed decision. Relationships are hard and they don't maintain well on their own. The people in them have to work at them. Best of luck on this.
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