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30-35,
*rankie14
writes:i have a problem. i think i am in love, but i am only fourteen. i think teenage love is strongest of all though. i am not naive and i appear older for my age both mentally and physically. anyway i recently met a great guy age 16 and hes pretty much perfect for me in every way, he respects me a little too much though, he thinks i am too young yet he always flirts with me and touches me in ways that are more than friendly. he has told me that he thinks a 15 year old and a 17 year old would be ok so i think this is his way of saying we should be together when im older. i know he tries to resist but one time when he was drunk we did get a bit...close and i dont really know what i can do, its hard to wait because i just want to kiss him everytime i see him. x
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reader, Frankie14 +, writes (23 October 2008):
Frankie14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question lol what are you talking about, im not stupid im not going to ahve sex until im good and ready, i know all the facts and no ones forcing me into anything, its about a relationship, not a sexual one!
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reader, totalsum  +, writes (30 September 2008):
Dear Under temptation at such a young age,
Not to be what one would consider insensitive...but, at YOUR age, I'm sure
YOU are still in school and they have a library. Please go
there and find books on teenage sexuality. Read these books
if nothing more than to pre-occupy your time, besides hanging around your 'tempter' and understand that 'real' or
mature sexual activity should come with a mature understanding of 'it's' functions as well. The act of sex-
uality at your age is a needless process. I do understand
it's a big-big urge, and again, can re-iterate that as will;
millions of adults out there in the "been there, did it"
class can tell you the same thing: If you do decide to do,
whatever you choose to do, precede with caution when you
do it. If YOU haven't spoken with anyone regarding this
matter, please seek out someone to talk with. It may not
be a parent, a friend by no means, but at least a mature
understanding adult such as a counselor at the school YOU
attend. They can at least prepare You for repercussions
and the network to help YOU, if nothing more than this:
W-A-I-T
Wait until I'm ready- and YOU are surely not or YOU would
not be asking this question,
Am I prepared ? Are YOU ? Because if you were really pre-
pared YOU would stand on your own two feet.
I need to give MYSELF time ! Stand up for something
better, and give ME more time !
Think about MYSELF and what I want to really do with MY
life besides this 'temptation' or am I making the
correct decision for MY life at this so-so tender
time in MY life !
Read about 'Reverse Mind Games' and ask YOURSELF if it's really YOU that is the 'one' in this scenario that is doing the wanting. Nothing wrong in being tempted, that's human nature. Please be advised to what I say to YOU, precede with caution so life for YOU can add up to the totalsum that YOU want, desire and above all, deserve !!!
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female
reader, Frankie14 +, writes (4 May 2008):
Frankie14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni was asking about a relationship lol you guys took it wrong
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): Ohh so I come back and find I've promoted underage sex lol. I wasn't! I wasn't even keeping sex in mind - apologies. I thought she was just asking about a relationship. Ohh well thanks lol. But yes, sex between the 2 of you would definitely be illegal (happy guys?!) so don't do it.. Lol.
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female
reader, Frankie14 +, writes (22 April 2008):
Frankie14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys i will wait, :D and you made me smile i need that now :D
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female
reader, Frankie14 +, writes (22 April 2008):
Frankie14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys you've been really helpful, and you also made me laugh i need that right now lol and now for some quotes: good things come to those who wait & you can achieve anything u set your mind to :D
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reader, Andrew83 +, writes (22 April 2008):
 As long as you wait for sex till at least 16 (its the law, LJ001 should have said this as you live in the uk).
If you both think your right for each other then great, just dont break the law by under age sex is my advice here to you. you really dont want him charged for under age sex now do you.
As far as i know, you are able to kiss and hug but as above you'll have to wait for doin that part.
This may not be the best advice here to you from me but its here for you so you dont have a broken heart over doin something you knew about (i mean him bein charged for under age sex).
Take it slow dont rush it and you'll be fine.
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (22 April 2008):
 Oh teenage love is WONDERFUL. I remember it like it was yesterday - and in fact it's umpty-tiddly years ago (a lady doesn't always like to reveal her age...)
But it doesn't hurt to wait a little, and I'll guarantee it's worth waiting. Dream; imagine; flirt; don't rush. It will be far more wonderful in a year or two when it happens, and that's a promise from me (and you can come back here in a couple of years time and tell me I was absolutely right!!).
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): Yea - I have some advice.... Wait. Read the post immediately following this one.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): Wait untill your 15, sorry but 14 is a bit young to lose it. Dosen't look very good on you now does it.Well done LJ001 for promoting underage sex!! a round of appluause for you
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): I completely and utterly understand how you're feeling. You love him, but all anyone tells you is that you're too young to experience love. But screw them. Just because they didn't fall in love at a young age doesn't mean nobody can honey. I see what he means, about him being older. But all he's looking at is ages. The gap between you will always be 2 years, no matter how old either of you are. If you really don't want to wait, tell him this. Tell him you like him so much (if you dont want to use the word love) and want to grab life by the balls. Why wait around? Time is short. Explain this to him, and maybe he will understand. But if all else fails, keep in touch. Keep being great friends because real love never fades away. If you can get to the point where he just doesn't want to wait any longer, then you guys can be together. Make him fall head over heels for you, and he sure won't be able to wait. Good luck :]
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