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female
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anonymous
writes:I have been cheating on my husband with 2 men. I've never actually had sex with them, but we do have online relationships. I know I shouldn't be doing it, but time after time I find my self IMing these guys and I just don't know how to stop myself. I know it sounds stupid but I'm afraid it will lead to carrying on a real affair, I need to stop but just can't figure out how.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think I've got this figured out. I'm going to just talk to him and see how he feels about it.
I've gotten letters from guys who say that it wouldn't bother them as long as their girlfriend/wife didn't have an actual affair.
All the responses I've gotten from women say that it's cheating no matter what and I need to stop imediately.
So I'm going to ask him what he thinks about it. If it upsets him, I have no problem deleting all IM accounts I have and I will even ask him to check the comp periodically to make sure I'm not getting back into it.
I think that's the best thing to do, adn I want to thank all of your for your responses, they really heped me sort through how I feel about all of this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont think that viewing porn should be considered cheating. And I have been trying to stop, honestly, but there are times when I'm at the house alone, and i find myself logging in to my instant messenger, and sending a message to one of the guys. Before you know it we're cybering...I just don't know how to stop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): If I can offer you an analogy:
If you put your hand too near the fire it's going to hurt. The answer is not to go near the fire!
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