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writes:I dont know what to do.I have a crush on my mum's cousin.He isnt much older than me.Should i tell him how i feel or not ?.He has smiled alot at me, asked if i have a boyfriend afew times, danced with me at a party and bought me a drink, and he has said he thinks i am good looking !.Obviously i think he is and i like him as a person.I dont see him very much though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): Hi.I just wanted to mention that he and my mum arent very close.I have seen him more than she has within the last few years, and she hasnt seen him much during my lifetime, and probably not before that, since he isnt much older than me.Just out of curiousity, do you think it sounds like he likes me aswell ?.Even if nothing actually happens with us, it would still be great if he felt the same way.If i ever do mention it to him though, i could probably say it's up to him whether he wants to act on it or not, but i just wanted to tell him how i feel.I dont know how exactly i would tell him though.I would like to keep it secret from the rest of the family, if that would be possible, but then it probably wouldnt last very long.He did say once though that he didnt want me to tell this other guy who liked me once that we were hanging around with each other, and i was surprised he said that.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (23 April 2008):
 Speak to your mom, see how she feels about the situation.
If she's ok with it, approach the subject with him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2008): it all depends on ur mums relationship with him. if theyre close, dont go there. if not go 4 it, he can only say no. but by the sounds of it he won't say no. when a guy acts like that towards a woman it means he likes em. (or he's a jerk)!
just make sure ur not blood related in any way. lol.
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reader, DearSteve +, writes (23 April 2008):
 If you decide to follow through with this crush, you risk upsetting the entire family and causing yourself unlimited stress and upset. Legally speaking, relations with a second cousin are not against the law, but it remains a social taboo and many people view this type of relationship as incest. You need to evaluate whether the possibility of a relationship is worth the hassle and upset it might cause for you both. There are plenty more fish in the see, ones you’re not related too, so take your mind off him and get fishing.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (23 April 2008):
 well its fine to have a crush on him hun but dont assume anything until your sure of it..since u said u dont see him to much then why hurry..may be when u meet him next time at a family party or gathering just try talking to me casually and see how it goes..i hope u dont freak your mom out by this.anyways best of luck!!!
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