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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi there everyone!So, i have two problems:a) I'm feeling quite lonely lately. I'm not those kind of girls who wants to have lots of boyfriends or who is always thinking about men and sex. But the fact is: i feel quite lonely lately. I know I have awesome friends, and I love to be around them but...You see, I need to meet someone new..A new guy! I never wanted so badly to fall in love again. I know, it's stupid...Terribly stupid actually. You might tell me that, when i'm not expecting it...poof...someone new we'll enter my life. b) (which is actually the continuation of point a)) There's this guy I fancy...He's cute, he's smart...He seems nice and sometimes it seems he's staring at me and we exchange some looks and so...I think that I would like to know him better cause it looks like we have so many tastes in common. But I don't know how to do it...We have talked 2-3 times and we laughed and so...Can you give me some advice on this please? Reply to this Question
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (23 April 2008):
 hi their, i know exactly how you feel for about two years i had split from my ex and now and again u feel the urge to be with someone ie a partner to share youre evenings with or just sitting by the fire having a laugh.. well sometimes things happen when you least expect them but also sometimes you have to make things happen and in this case i say its a 50% 50%..if you like this guy and think he is compatable / or good for you then make a step forward talk more to him ..communication is one of the biggest keys so use it. try asking him what he likes music games hobbies.. people always say they run out of things to talk about their is plenty of things to talk about..once you built up good communincation, ask him if he fancys having a coffee as you were going to get one or even a drink. if he does go with you for a drink give him youre number and say that was really nice ide like to do it again call me we could do it again sometime if you fancy..you want to put youreself out their but dont completely put youreself on the line.. thats what i would hope this helps aphex xx
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