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Should I stay or should I go, he's out of prison and seeing another girl

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Question - (22 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend has just gotten out of prison march 1st, after serving 7 years. we met 14 months ago, while he was out on a furlow from work release. well, he decided to go to the strip club with his brothers and friends, where he met a girl who i know. this girl is one of my worst enemies. i asked him not to be associated with her anymore, but he sneaks behind my back anyways. we argue all the time about the situation. he says if i have male friends, he can have female friends. i just dont want him associated with her! i dont know what else to do besides express my wishes of him not befriending her! please help me, should i stay or should i go??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008):

THANKS GUYS!!!

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A male reader, Smiffy Spain +, writes (22 April 2008):

Smiffy agony auntLeave him..get on with your life...I imagine you are a fantastic person...having waited for 14mths for your BF to return....he doesnt deserve you....plenty of guys out there for you....who will give you what you need...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008):

Can any woman be as desperate as you appear to be? This guy is surely the catch of the century, right?

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A male reader, alan949 United States +, writes (22 April 2008):

I say leave him. I don't really know if he's the type of person you would want to be involved with anyways... Like Collaroy said an ex con and a cheater who doesn't seem to heed what you say to him. Let him run off with her and go with your life to find someone more suitable for you

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (22 April 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

I'm trying to figure out why you are interested in this guy in the first place. A cheater and an ex con. O.K its not for me to judge ,but 7 years suggests he did something awful bad, and moreover, he is not showing you any respect by chasing after a girl you dislike.

but then again, we are not talking about the ideal gentleman here are we?

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