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I would never have sex with someone under 16, but is it ok, (or legal) for me to go out with her, or do some of the things she is talking about.

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Question - (30 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I'm 18 and have been mates with this girl who is 14 (nearly 15) for a while now. She has just revealed that she likes me, and has been giving me some vivid messages about what she wants me to do to her. I do like her, but am worried about the age issues. She does seem incredibly horny (only way I could think of putting it) for someone her age, and really seems to want some attention.

I would never have sex with someone under 16, but is it ok, (or legal) for me to go out with her, or do some of the things she is talking about. I'm never usually interested in someone her age, and have had normal relationships with girls my own age, so I really don't know about this situation. For some reason I like this girl despite her age, and I'd really like some advice on what I should do next.

Thanks.

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (30 August 2007):

Its not illegal for you to go out with her. As for doing 'other things' I assume you are talking about other sexual activities but not sex? I would assume they would be illegal too, although im not 100% sure. However kissing and stuff is legal :)

Personaly I would say, stay away from her. I know you like her but she is young and do you really want to be the guy who she does things with and later regrts that she didnt wait till an older age? Many girls regret doing sexual activities if they do it when they are young and werent old enough to make a good decision.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (30 August 2007):

Sandman agony auntYou'd have to check to age regulations on sexual relationships in your country. Or maybe someone on this site will know. In the US, the age limit across the board starts at 16 (some states start at 16, some at 18). So 14 or 15 in the US would be considered Statutory Rape in our country. Again, you would need to check the laws for yours.

I don't know, just stick with your own age. There are plenty of women your age looking for good guys, you just need to find them. Take your time to find the right one, she's waiting on you.

Hope this helps.

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