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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2009): because it feels good...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Masturbation as a young kid seems weird but at a early age you start to explore and realize the feeling of sex and from the videos and talks you hear in society you want to have sex but either your too young or shy because you've never done it before you dont go after it so you just play with yourself. Its the lack of knowledge, you dont know enough about sex so what do you do? you try masturbation. The older you get you tend to masturbate less because it is so much easier to get laid. I used to masturbate every day since i was friggen 14 years old. since i turned 19 i havnt masturbated once! unless i got head or handjob, i got laid so many times as if im trying to break somebodys record or something..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): People masturbate for all types of reason ok say your partner doesn't want to have sex with then what do you do? Just replying to fade878 that all sounds fine and dandy lets just look at the studies and findings. Masturbating is selfish? Interesting you should say that fade878 what if your partner is with hold sex from you then what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): There are many reasons why people masturbate. It could be because they are sexually aroused, they could be bored, or it could be because of excess stress. When you masturbate, it makes your body feel good, and it gives you a kick of adrenaline. Try it, and see if you feel better afterwards than you did before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007): because they like it
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (10 October 2007):
It feels good and is relaxing.
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reader, rhino  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 many people masturbate,at all ages too,it relaxes them,takes pressure away,and makes you feel bloody great,many women like to see men masturbate in font of them,thinking of seeing them is a great turn,i love to see a women do it,it is nice turn for both of you,think about that next time you are with a girl,
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): hey there,i guess people masturbate when they are very horny and dont have a partner nearby.lonely people do it all the time.it relieves stress and puts you back in focus.am jus afraid if its a life time addiction because i do it all the time since am single
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): ever heard the song satisfaction?
Touch Me
and then just Hold Me
Til i can get my
SATISFACTION.
sexual satisfaction pure and simple.
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Men and woman masterbate because it feels good as many have said before me, makes you feel "happy" as others have said and people may not have a partner and they have an urge or build up of sexual desire.
But I do it mainly as a tool to "unwind" its great to get rid of my stress when i dont have my partner with me and it relaxs my bodys muscles after build up of tenseness.
There have been links in scince to prove that regular orgasism also improve your overal attitude, mental and physical health.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): do any of you other girls have a feeling of guilt after you masturbate? like it feels great but as soon as you finish you feel dirty and wrong?? or is it just me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): well, there is alot of way to pleasure yourself and people masterbate from a very young age, simply just fiddling with there parts and realising it feels good. people masturbate because they may want sex but there is no one but them selves
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): ok, well the reason i masurbate is because i have some sexual energy that has built up, i feel horny and i want to release it! i dont have a girlfriend at the mo so i do it myself!! i dont remember when i started doing it either and im not sure how i knew what to do! i just do it when i feel like it!! im just about to purchase my first sex aid.."the famous rabbit"! im rather excited i have to say!! masturbation is normal! everyone does it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): Men a woman masturbate to please them self it makes them 'happy' instead of haveing sex 24/7
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reader, Ileana +, writes (30 August 2007):
 People masturbate because it feels nice. Thats it really. Plus it relaxes people and makes them happy,Love Ileanazxxx
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