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writes:Hi, I have been with my bf for4 yrs, sex was great till he started calling me names, disrepecting me.Just verybally abusing me to the point that I more sad and now I question myself of how good of a person I am, and what he thinks of me. Because of this, I feel that he doesnt understand how hurt I am, and Ive tried to express to him yet he just doesn't get it. So, I feel that when we do have it, it's about only satisfying his needs while Im hurt and therefore I feel used. At this moment I dont yearn for sex because of the hurt that is unforgiven. What shall i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Well, maybe ask him why hes changed towards you? If he cant come up with a decent answer, I wouldnt put up with it. If hes making you feel so low, stand up for yourself and put your foot down, perhaps threaten to leave him? It might give him a kick up the backside, if he doesnt change, he isnt worth your time and you should find someone who does respect you.
Take care xxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): you need to talk to him and tell him the truth communication is vital in a relationship! if his selfish/ abusive ways don't stop im afraid you will have to leave him you deserve better than this! good luck!xx
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