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*ndofmyteather
writes:I need help. Me and my partner have been together for 6.5 years, but i need to know if it is normal for a man to cause arguments everyday and for me to fight for any attention. i trully love him but need to know are we at the end of the road? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): i'm going through the same thing, though i've only been with my boyfriend for a year. Is it normal that we fight all the time, are never satisfied, and hardly get physical. it never was like this, only until recently when he moved back to his moms house and I left to Germany for work ( and came back 3 weeks later) did he start his coldness routine. I feel very frustrated and only wish i could go back to the time we were great and compatible together. I know he didn't cheat on me, thats a fact, he'd sooner swim the Atlantic. In any case he has changed tremendously. Help
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reader, endofmyteather +, writes (10 September 2007):
endofmyteather is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi lucy i would like to chat to you even if its just to have someone to chat to. how do we do it do your personal message me or do i need to give you my email. its good to know that i am not alone i dont get out at all so dont have anyone to talk to and i cant talk to my family as they just wont understand. thank you for replying to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): hi, i completely understand your problems,I am married with 2 kids and my husband is very similar to yours, I constantly get annoyed with him because I feel he doesnt do enough to help around the house and with the kids, its hard because if your like me, your not happy, but you also dont want to break up a family, espically because of the kids. I constantly find myself thinking that there must be someone better out there for me, but on the other hand I think maybe no guy will do everything we want them to, my head is also wrecked, and Im glad im not the only one going through this, if you fancy chatting by email, then let me know, take care, chin up,Lucy
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reader, endofmyteather +, writes (30 August 2007):
endofmyteather is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry, i was in abit of a rush.
we have been together for 6.5yrs, and from start to present have had one problem after another. not just our own. but since we lost our daughter last year(over half way through the pregnancy) we have become even more distant. I use to believe that love was where you did things for each other, have a cuddle up on the sofa every now and then, listen to each other, be able to have conversations with one another, not where it is a huge effort. i know that i couldnt be without him, but i am sure he doesnt feel the same way. if there is something that needs doing, in regards to our children or life in general, it is a huge problem for him. from what i can see, he would prefer to be single, so he can just do what he wants. he doesnt believe he should get up for the kids, thats my job, he completely over reacts when they are doing general kid things(like being mucky). he believes if he stays up till late then he should be able to sleep in till he wants and me get up with the kids on a morning. im sorry if i am rambling its just my head is all over the place. i thought love was where someone protects you, respects you, listens every now and then. i dont feel that he has an emotional connection with me, as i try to tell him how i feel and he just comes back with slandering me, where its all my fault, and not where he seems bothered that i am having so much difficulty in this relationship. ive been told that i might be depressed and my relationship is the reason why. So i am wanting some suggestions on how to make this work, not just for my sake but for my kids sake aswell, or is it that i cant make it work. there are other factors but am not happy with every one knowing these details, you can personal message me if you want more details, not sure if this site does taht, am new (lol). just got up this morning and was sick of yet another arguement about the same old thing. any answers will be gratefully recieved, and once again sorry if it is abit of a muddle and mixed up
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): There isn't enough information here. Care to give more details and we can be of more help.
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