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writes:my 17 Yr old boyfriend never takes me anywhere. earlier i confronted him about this and he said "well your only 15, i didnt think you'd want to go anywhere" i took offence by this and he stormed off to bed when i expressed this. was i right to take offence to it?help.love xx Reply to this Question
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (6 September 2007):
katzkitten is verified as being by the original poster of the question yes my mum does know and no, he was sleeping at mine and we sleep in different beds. thankyou all for your advice :)its fabby :) we do go out but only like to the shop or from where we meet to one of our houses. i want to go more places like to a shopping center, or for a meal, or to the cinema or even for a walk to the park. just to places lol. its not that he doesnt trust me around his mate cz i get on well with them. :/
thankies anyhow!
lovves!!! xxx
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reader, pink_fairy22 +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Hey, I think you seriously need to sit down and talk to him and tell him what you want from the relationship. Tell him you want to spend more time with him and maybe suggest a place you would like to go. Tell him how it makes you feel that he doesnt take you anywhere. Don't shout at him or anything else he might think twice about the idea. If he doesnt want to then hes really not worth it :)
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reader, 88jane +, writes (31 August 2007):
 yeh you and your boyfriend obviously have different ideas about what you want from your relationship or where you are at! tell him that you want to spend time with him..make it blatant that you do!! if he still doenst want to spend time with you or take you anywhere then this is not a good relationship! as lleana said you need to handle this maturely or he will think you are acting like a kid and will be less likely to want to take you with his friends or whatever! if he doesnt want to spend time with you like this then maybe he isnt worth worrying over!!
good luck hunni! xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): it might not be nice to hear but maybe he doesn't want to be seen with a 15 year old. in which case he's a jerk. because his response doesn't make any sense
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): Hmmm...he's 17 and your 15? Do your parents know this? What about the storming to bed comment? So does that mean you kids have a bed at your regular disposal? Sounds to me like weither he carts you around when your bored isnt the major problem here. Take a look at the big picture honey! MAJOR RED FLAGS!!
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reader, Ileana +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Hey Honey,It was a bit mean of him to say that really.Youve got to think about it though hes obviously not sure of what you want from the relationship. Try sitting down and talking to him show him that you can be taken out dont take offence and paddy like a fifteen year old would.Good Luck,Questions? EMail meIleanaxxx
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