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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been seeing this guy for about 9 months now only every couple of weeks because he lives in another town. I really like him and enjoy spending time with him and I want to be in a proper relationship with him. From the conversations we've had it seems like he doesn't want a relationship at the moment I'm too scared to ask because I don't want to ruin what we do have. He's a very nice guy and makes me feel special, when we're together it feels like we're a couple but nothing has ever been mentioned. Should I just wait around and see what happens or should I just walk away and find someone who really likes me back? Reply to this Question
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reader, duce00  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Hi there,
I think 9 months is plenty long enough to ask where the relationship stands. You shouldnt feel afraid about that. Frankly I cant see how youve waited this long, I know I wouldnt! You should be prepaired for an answer you dont want to hear but thats no reason not to ask a question. If he doesnt want a serious relationship with you then you need to figure out if you can live in limbo waiting for him to get serious. I wouldnt advise that myself.
Theres an old saying that fits here "Fish or cut bait".
Best of luck,
Duce
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reader, Ileana +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Hey honey,If you dont ask how will you ever know if secretley he does like you? Just hint towards it and if you get the message to steer clear then say your happy just being friend and go find another who likes you back.Have your cake, Maybe you can eat it later.If you wanna chat email me.LoveIleanaxxxx
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