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writes:Me and my boyfriend have lived together for about 2 years. I love him dearly, and we have had some trust issues lately. He has lied to me a few times about dumb things so it made me be a little paranoid. He doesn't like the fact that I snoop through his stuff and ask questions. He says I am too much for him and now we are broken up. He didn't come home on Saturday night and the next day after yelling at each other and saying very mean disrespectful things to each other I tricked him into telling me he was just with a girl who is a friend. The next day after I moved out, he called me to let me know he just said that to hurt me because I kinda did the same thing to him. I was willing to work things out and now he doesn't know if he does. I was planning to move back home even though my family lives here in this state, but he doesn't want me to. He says we might be able to work it out. But if I decide to stay and he doesn't want to get back with me, I am going to be hurt. We look at each other and burst into tears knowing that we are not going to be together, but when he says he is going to let me go. The next minute he calls me to tell me not to go and he claims to be confused. Should I wait around or should I just leave and forget about him?
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reader, Butterflyfly  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Walk out... not it;s his time to do a bit of good convincing,, if he is worth his salt and really wants you, that is. If he fails at it, then you nkow for sure you were right to back off. Take care x
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reader, xFreedomxEmox +, writes (31 August 2007):
Leave and forget he changes his mind to often he needs to be conferdent about the relashionship. Even though snooping was wrong i should think you had good intenstions.Hope it works outx
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