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writes:i am in a relationship with this guy who always tells me he loves me so much. we have been in this relationship for two years now. i also love him so much. He has gone to the extent of introducing me to all his family members. he has promised to marry me soon. less than a week ago, i caught him with another girl in his bedroom. i was even pregnant for him and we decided to abort the baby and wait till we get married. am so hurt and dissapoint. I love this guy so much that i cant leave without him. Please help me out to win his full love and committment. if he is really not my husband, then, please help to forget about him so that i can find my true love soon. i am in tears as i email to you. please help me out Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): Everyone gets hurt, but so sorry you had to get your trust dented this way. You do need to move on while you are young enough to find a good man who you can trust to be a father to your kids etc. Please don't waste time thinking you can change him because you can't and won't. You have to be tough. You say you can't live without him but you can. Would you rather be alone and looking or in a partnership that was miserable and feeling really bad? Surely you can't be that desperate. Get something positive out of this by re-focussing on yourself. What do you want in life that is your own acheivement? Whats qualities would you look for in a good man - stick to them.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Hi
This guy isnt worth wasting anymore time on, let alone plan a marriage with.
Hard as it is i would move on and cut your losses.
He's nowhere near ready for a commitment.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): What did he say as to why he was with another girl?
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