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I'm 11 and me and my girlfriend keep breaking up. Should we be together? Help please.

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Question - (30 August 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2007)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

me and my girlfreind keep breaking up and getting back together over and over should we be together i am eleven

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A female reader, pink_fairy22 United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2007):

pink_fairy22 agony auntI really wouldnt worry about any of this. Your in no rush to be in a serious relationship as your 11. You have the whole of your life ahead to meet a lot of new people. I'm 17 and i think still think that im not ready to settle down with one guy at the moment, im still meeting new people :)

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A female reader, lillaum United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2007):

lillaum agony auntI think that regardless of your age you should consider ending things with this girl. At the end of the day all this going out with each other and breaking up again, over and over is going to upset you. No one deserves to be unhappy, no matter what their age is. You can always still be friends. Plus if you are in the same school you will see eachother so often that it is better to end things on a good note. When you are with this girl you are using up unnecessary amounts of energy and time that you could use for making yourself happy instead. I say give yourself a break and end the relationship so you can both concentrate on the good things in life. Isn't that what everyone wants no matter what age they are??

Good Luck

Lillaum

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007):

Your only 11 you both are too young to have these kind of worries on your mind. The relationship may seem like the real deal but unfortunately your probably going to go through this process many times in your life. If you do keep breaking up maybe your just not ready to have this type of commitment. At 11 you should be enjoying your life and having fun not getting tied down with these problems. Maybe you would be better suited as friends and not a couple

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A female reader, xFreedomxEmox United Kingdom +, writes (30 August 2007):

Hi,

Im 12 turning 13 but im near your age so ive exspirenced a really simular thing to you my opinion is not to be together the fact is this isnt true love your only 11 and theres plenty more fish in sea. It's clear this relashionship just isnt working out

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A female reader, Sugarbuns Australia +, writes (30 August 2007):

Sugarbuns agony auntNo probably not. Make a clean break and find other friends. You have so many years ahead of you to focus on relationships. You are too young to be serious about anyone, no matter how it feels right now. Good luck.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (30 August 2007):

kenny agony auntI think you are way to young to be worrying about issues such as this. Relax, take things in your stride, have fun and worry about relationship things further down the line.

Take care

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A female reader, 88jane United Kingdom +, writes (30 August 2007):

88jane agony auntoh hunny, your 11 years old, you shouldnt be worrying about things like this! you should be out with your mates enjoying being a kid!! this relationship doesnt sound as though its working so i would suggest ending it and enjoying your youth! worry about girls in another 5 years!!!

take care hun xxx

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (30 August 2007):

bubbloo24 agony auntHun, if you don't see a future and it's hurting you, it's probably best to end it and move on.

You're only eleven after all, you've got a whole life time of dating and meeting new people. If you don't think the relationship's worth saving, it's probably best that you finish it.

Take care with what ever you choose

Jen xx

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