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writes:I'm still in love with my ex and he is getting married next week.. it still hurts inside.. what should I do? I really need advice asap!!pls..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): hi, im in the same situation right now and I just want you to know that there is nothing we can do. I thought about telling my guy how I still feel about him but I don't think thats a good idea. I know it hurts like crazy. My heart feels like its going to literally burst from all the pain inflicking on it. I have never in my entire 25 years ever loved anyone so much that whenever he spoke to me, all the cells in my body jump for joy. I know this sounds a lil unreal but it's true and so my friend all we can do is focus on the things we want for ourselves to be happy without them(men). dedicate your life to your career and strive to be a good person and I hope someday the right man will come along.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 I reall do think you are going to have to bite the bullet on this one. He has moved on fallen in love and is getting married next week. I know how painful it must be for you as you are still carrying feelings for him. Although it does not feel like it now in time your feelings will diminish and this pain you are feeling inside will go. Listen to Basschick, time really does heal all wounds. Sooner or later you will meet someone else that sweeps you off your feet and you will forget all about you ex.
Take care x
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reader, tracyann +, writes (30 August 2007):
There is nothing you can do , he has moved on , and you need to do the same, i know it hurts but life is a bitch
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reader, Basschick +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Time heals all wounds. Try to avoid your ex when you're out socially. Make new friends. Start seeing other guys. You will eventually find someone that makes you happy and it will lessen the pain. Good luck.
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reader, pavel38 +, writes (30 August 2007):
There's not alot you can do. You haven't explained the circumstances but unless it's been a whirlwind romance between him & his wife to be, & he's admitted to you that he still has feeling for you, then you have to accept it, take time to heal & in time you'll be ready to move on. Bursting into the ceremony declaring undying love for him might work in the movies but in real life 999 times out of 1000 such a gesture will have the opposite effect - everyone (including your ex) will resent your intrusion & perhaps never speak to you again, & you won't stop the ceremony from going ahead. I know it's not the answer you want, sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): If it hurts inside you may have a kidney problem. Visit your doctor straight away.
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