A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My mum hates my boyfriend so much that she even used an old mobile to text him so it looked like he was cheating, I know because I knew the number was my brother's old number from his first phone. She's always talking bad about him and calls him all the names under the sun. I've try to stop her, and show her that what we have it for real by moving in with him, but she still says he's not good enough for me. She loves using the fact that he lied to me about the fact he had a girlfriend and a child when we first met, nothing happened once I knew, we kissed but we were both very drunk at the time and 6 months later I heard he was single. When mum heard he had a child with someone, she found out where they lived and went to find out about him, his ex didn't give a good impression. I get on really well with his family and his daughter, and he gets on really well with my 3 brothers, but my mum is causing real problems, I love them both but I hate the fact my mum is trying to make me choose. My dad left her before I was born and my brothers are by 2 different dad's. She says she only wants the best for me, and that he will get me pregnant and leave me, but I hate this. I don't want to have to choose because I need them both in my life, but I really can't take any more of this. Any possible soulitions?
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reader, Escalaya  +, writes (31 August 2007):
 Exactly as previously stated. In your mothers eyes, every guy is rotten, worthless, and will use, and leave you.You'll have to press on, and tell your mom to deal with, and support you. Tell her it's your life to live, and your mistakes to make, if you don't make the mistake, you can't learn from it.It's hard, but press on girl.Best of luck; take care.
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reader, Ileana +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Hey sweetie,In your mothers eyes no boy will ever be good enough for you but that wasnt right for your mother to do that to him. Mothers are there to give support and to pick up the pieces once the mistake is made. Just make sure you dont fuel her with anything always talk nicely about him and if she talks badly about him ignore her and walk away dont argue with her. Try it,If you need more help feel free to email meLots of loveIleanaxxxx
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