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writes:Sometimes I believe in an amazing fairytale love, in which although circumstances can never be perfect, the two people feel an amazing love, in which passion and etc is all included.Other times, I believe people should be realistic, and realise that passion in every relationship will fade, and that "movie" type love doesn't exist.So I ask... Is it okay to be in a serious relationship where it is near perfect, but to still wonder/dream/occasionally hope that the "wow/breath taking" love will happen someday? Reply to this Question
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (29 August 2007):
 i think every girl wishes for the fairy tale love and night in shinny armour. its sort of our way to get away from reality and just be a princess who needs to be resuced. and its fine to wish even when you are in a pretty good relationship. it sort of nice when you imagine it. but just don't let it get in to relaity and think everything is perfect whe it isn't because that just makes things differcult. hope you and your boyfriend will be good.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the posts,
I do have the common sense that the movie love is a myth, but i still often have hope anyways! Thanks though for the reminder that the grass always looks greener etc.
To heartbrokenxx, you have just described what im feeling! its nice to know someone else feels that way,
id love to know how it works out for you, and for me!
is this one of them "only time will tell ?" .... Dammit!! x xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): Dear, the "wow" movie-type love is a myth. What is actual and real is two people who respect and desire each other, loving each other as friends and partners in life. This becomes deeper, and with time, you become soul mates. The grass is not greener, all people have problems and issues, we are all human, and one person is not necessarily "better" than the other. I believe that the search for "happily ever after" is what creates the high divorce rates, which is totally unnecessary.
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reader, heartbrokenxx +, writes (29 August 2007):
 i always wonder that myself, i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 2 years nearly...and it started off being fabulous, the butterflies the late nite talks the endless rushes of love! but over timee... all the problems all the mistakes and lies he did, i dunno jus made things different so i wonder... will i ever get that feeling again? or will someone else in this world provide it for me everyday? make me fall for him over and over...
i dunno, i guess u'd jus hav to live and learn!
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