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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Well there's this girl i like, i see her every weekend and she is interested in me because we always talk and are around each other when we are out. The people around us know we like each other including her mum, and keep dropping hints in front of us which is a little uneasy with us both there, but that doesn't bother me too much.On Saturday night things were going well, she was waiting to go home. We were getting along fine and laughing etc. And i was thinking about getting off with/making out with/kissing her, whatever people want to call it. But her parents were there and a few other people so i thought it was best not to at that time, so i just kissed her on the cheek before she left. But i am wondering if i am just using that as an excuse in my own mind, i think about her a lot. All of the week when i don't see her, she is gorgeous in my eyes. And i often think of my next move and hope i have the confidence to go for it when it comes to it. We are both shy it seems, but i feel i have to make the first move here. I don't want to stop at this stage forever because i don't want her to lose interest. I mean i don't even have her number yet, so where do i go from here?I know my confidence will play a huge part in the kissing part but what can i do when i do that? And where can i take her if i ask her to go anywhere? What conversations can i strike up with her to keep her interested? And so on... All this seems and probably should be simple to do and know for someone my age, but i don't find it easy when i have to confront it. Tips and help please!!thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): okaayy so you like her but your not sure if she likes you?!the chances are that she does like you coz look1) she didnt back off when you kissed her2)she actually hangs around with youso next time you see her ask for her phone number and then the time after that admit to her that you like her. dont say it in a desperate way and dont insult her while your doing it ...(trust me it doesnt make sense but someone did that to me lool) she will love you for getting up the courage and telling her.she her reaction and if it looks good kiss her but be gentle. And if all things go wrong make sure you still stay close friends and gradually you probably will end up going out.Just remember she most likely likes you coz you sound like a great person xx
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